Building a Life That Requires No Escape

"Build a life that you don't need to escape from." Ryan Holiday At the end of a long workday, how do you unwind? When there is stress in your life, how do you find relief? Do you dread waking up and going to work? When I first read the quote from Ryan Holiday, it almost …

How Doing Things on Purpose Unlocks Your True Purpose

What's my purpose? Do I have purpose? Did you do that on purpose? Purpose. What an interesting word. A word with a variety of meanings, it's no wonder we are struggle to figure out what it means in our own lives. Purpose is both a noun and a verb. Purpose can either be attained or …

“Flipping the Script: Finding Joy in a World of Adversity”

Do you get upset when life does not go your way? When something bad or unfair happens to you, how do you react? I used to view life from the perspective that life is mostly good with a few bad experiences but now it's flipped. I am not a complete cynic who thinks the world …

Insights from a 36-Year-Old: 4 Key Lessons

Lesson #1: Compare yourself to your photo album, not someone else's social media feed Do you ever find yourself scrolling through your social media feed and you begin to feel like a loser? You see other people going on amazing vacations or accomplishing incredible goals while you are sitting in your pjs eating chips...again We …

Accountability Simplified: The Red Circle

"When you die and you are standing before God, what will you be held accountable for?" I don't remember my exact answer but being a young seminary student, I gave some super deep spiritual answers. My counselor was not impressed. He even said something about the fact that I "over-spiritualize everything." "Ok, Mr. Fancy Counselor …

Happiness is the Struggle

"True happiness occurs only when you find the problems you enjoy having and enjoy solving." Mark Manson Have you ever sat down and asked yourself, "What's my purpose?" I know, deep question, right? Not something the average person probably thinks about on a weeknight. I am with you. I would rather zone out watching Parks …