Your life sucks because of you! Create the life you want.
Are you tired of feeling or being lonely? Are you tired of mindlessly scrolling on social media? Are you tired of giving into the same struggle again and again?
So why sit around and feel like crap? Why not do something about it?
As you reflect back on the previous year, are you happy with how things turned out? Yes? Good for you! Keep going! No? Then do something about it.
The future isn’t guaranteed. Even if we make it to our hoped for future, who says it will turn out the way we thought it would?
What kind of mood are you going to be in if you are always looking ahead for something better? Or what happens when you look back over the year and that hoped for thing still has not happened?
I don’t think the answer is the clique “be in the present moment.” Yes, that is true but I think it’s more than that. I think we should have future goals that we aim for but then reverse engineer the habits you need to develop to reach those goals.
That way you are building a foundation so when you get to the future and you didn’t completely reach your goal at least you can look back and be proud of the person you have become. Build the foundation now to support your future life.